Dealing with a break-up...

So recently I just got out of a 2 year relationship. I'm actually only 19 and this was my first ever serious relationship. Long story short, it sucks. If you haven't experienced a break up yet, there is no point in sugar coating it and saying it's easy, because it's not. But, there are so many ways you can deal with it. I've written a few examples below of things that have helped me out recently!

Spend time with your friends

I have realised that I have the most supportive friends in the world. Many people lose sight of their friends when they have a partner, and I myself am guilty of this. If I'm feeling all doom and gloom one night they will tell me 'NOPE. WE'RE GOING OUT!' I know you won't want to go out, partying or even going to the shops can be struggle, but it will make you feel so much better in the long run. Although moping about your house watching Netflix can be comforting at first, you can't do it forever! Laughter really is the best medicine.

Throw yourself into work

I'm currently at uni but also work part-time, therefore I have dedicated sooo much more time to my uni work and my job. When you're in a relationship, you can get blinded by love and just want to spend as much time with them as possible. I actually find myself enjoying writing up coursework and reading text books (!). My work has already been improving and this makes me feel better about myself too which is great.

Read a new book

Ok, so I know not everyone is into reading... But picking up a good book and engrossing yourself in it is such a great distraction. It keeps your mind busy and passes time especially if you find yourself with a lot of spare time that you would once have spent with your partner. If reading is your thing, then a TV series or 'movie marathon' would work all the same.

Take up a new hobby or volunteering

Taking up a new hobby can be daunting, especially if you've lost a lot of your confidence through a break up. But it's a great way to make friends, and if it's a sport, to keep fit! Again, it's another distraction which is what you will want especially if it is a recent break up. I know what it's like to have your mind on that one person 24/7, not being able to eat or sleep - but it does get easier. Also one thing I have decided to do recently is volunteer work. I know volunteering can be timely and to some people it's not for them if they aren't getting paid. But it will look great on your CV and it's another great way to meet people!

Learn to move on

This is the hardest way to deal with a break-up, but sadly it's inevitable. A lot of people cling onto the past (me), and don't want to move on. You might feel that the door is always open for you to go back there. Most likely it is not, but even if you have that chance, ask yourself, will things be different from last time? Am I just lonely and craving companionship? And this can be a vicious cycle in not allowing yourself to move on.

Hopefully these ideas have inspired you and help you to deal with your break-up. We all deal with things in different ways, and the way I deal with things could be completely different from the way someone else has, or is. All I can say is, it does get easier with time, even if it doesn't seem like it will.. <3

By Terry Ombre Blackstar 'Frozen Quarts' Review

I was recently having a huge marathon of watching Zoella's youtube videos, and came across the 'BY TERRY Ombre Blackstar "Color-Fix" Cream Eye Shadow in her 'Fresh, Spring Makeup Tutorial'. I've never actually used an eyeshadow pen before so decided to give this one a go.

Although the eyeshadow comes in several different shades I decided to chose the shade 'Frozen Quartz', as this had a pinkish/orange tone which I felt would complement my green eyes. Not only is the packaging lovely, but the actual pen is too. It comes in a stunning gold tube that is the perfect size to carry in your handbag or fit neatly in your makeup organiser. 

Frozen Quarts is more of the more shimmery formulas out the collection but there are others such as Brown Perfection and Midnight Forest that have more matte formulas. I would say that one of the main pros, due to it being a eyeshadow pen, is that it's super quick and easy to apply. One of the main reasons people buy eyeshadow sticks is for the quick and simple application - and this is definitely straight forward! 

This is what it looks like when applied to the eye. I felt it really complemented my eyes and is a nice colour to wear for everyday makeup. Or you can add darker colour over the top to create a smokey eye for a late night look. One thing I'll say, is that this lasted ALL day. If anything it was harder to remove at the end of the day!! The colour is really pigmented and a great quality. It glides smoothly onto your skin and has a creamy consistency that is easy to build up and blend.

Overall if you're looking for a high quality but simple to use eyeshadow, then this is the one for you. Although the price tag is £29/$43.50, it's worth it. I will definitely be purchasing another one soon!